Tuesday, October 20, 2009


Coping with heartbreak is something that just about everyone has to do at some point within their lives. Whether that be through the loss of someone special or like in most cases a relationship break up. Losing a partner through break up is a cruel thing and something that can tear your heart in to completely. So, what can you do to help when coping with heartbreak from a relationship break up?

1. Be Strong

This is obviously a well used tip and one that most of your closest friends and family have probably already said to you. But it is easier said than done! The only things you want to do right now is crawl into a ball and disappear. This is normal and a reaction the body takes when put through horrible emotions.
But you need to be strong and brave, this will help you become a better person and allow you to get on with life without your ex partner.

2. Socialize

Socializing is also something that is probably sat at the very back of your mind right now. You have just broken up with someone and trying to cope with your heart breaking, the last thing you want to do is go out and be happy!

But unfortunately you need to do this! Moping around the house and becoming a hobbit will only make things feel ten times worse. Let's face it, with nothing to do and nobody to talk to, the only things that are going to be running through your mind are the good and bad times with your ex partner.

This isn't going to help you with coping with heartbreak. So when you are invited out with friends, take every opportunity with both hands and give you brain a break from the break up

3. Talk

Ok, something else you may not want to do right away but talking and letting everything out to someone else, a close friend or family member will help you to cope with heartbreak. You are effectively letting out the strain on your broken heart and by doing this, you will feel much better almost immediately.

There is nothing quite like talking to a friend or relative and really letting things out, you are then not just dealing with this issue by yourself, you are getting to the support you need!

Coping with heartbreak from a relationship break up is not a nice thing and the only real way to fix your heart is by following tips like the above and either allowing TIME TO HEAL or BY REKINDLING THE LOVE WITH YOUR EX!

The 3 tips above will do something towards either time or reconciliation; you just need to decide which route you want to take to completely fix your heartbreak!

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Friday, October 16, 2009

HOMEMADE BABY’S FOOD

It’s wonderful the things we do for the people we love.

Prepare food, for example.

With Lulu, it started when she was still cozily nestled inside my belly. I remember thinking, every time I was putting food into my mouth, how much she would benefit from those foods. Comté, sole, rice pudding, carrots, zucchini, gratin, sweet potatoes, sweet and savory tarts, kale, peach, watermelon, apple, pear, blueberries, granola, veal, beef and milk — Oh the foods that I ate and enjoyed!

Vanilla-flavored Cortland apple sauce

Then when Lulu was born, I started to nurse her, and then, when she was interested and had teeth too — did I tell you she has 8? — came the time to prepare foods for her.

It was somewhat intimidating, at first, knowing what foods to prepare for my baby. Trying to guess what she would like. What she would dislike. How would I know that she would love peaches and doesn’t care too much for bananas? That she’d love sheep milk yogurt and turns her head away from a piece of tofu? It’s a process I’ve learned. A world that I continue to explore, every day. Something that keeps changing too, with her. A life that I truly enjoy.

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Red kuri squash and fennel with chicken, cumin and sage

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And somehow, along the way, I started to improvise fabulous food associations, combining vegetables with meats or fish, herbs and spices. Making the food nutritious and taste delicious. In fact, my rule is simple: if I like what I’ve prepared and want it for my lunch, then Lulu will have it! And hopefully she’ll enjoy it as much as I do.

Lulu is almost 10 months now — does time fly by for you too? She’s been eating many things. She lovesquinoa buttermilk pancakes and anything that tastes like sweet potato — especially the Japanese white ones — and winter and summer squashes, cauliflower, broccoli and fennel. Yesterday, for example, she atesole with Japanese white sweet potato, cauliflower and zucchini flavored with thyme and olive oil while dancing in her high chair to the tune of Charlie Winston playing in the background. And tonight, she had red quinoa to start, then winter squashsteamed with fennel, chicken, sage and cumin. Not a single spoonful was left on her plate.

That alone never fails to make me feel warm inside. Happy.

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Japanese white sweet potato, zucchini, cauliflower and sole with thyme

Japanese squash and sole with zucchini, cauliflower and thyme

Makes 2 baby* servings (*she is almost 10 months)

  • Japanese white sweet potato (3 oz; 90 g peeled and diced)
  • 1.75 oz (50 g) cauliflower florets
  • 1.75 oz (50 g) zucchini, diced
  • 1.75 oz (50 g) sole fillet, diced
  • 1 thyme twig
  • Olive oil, to drizzle
  • Of course, it’s best to buy everything organic.

Steps:

  • In the bowl of a steamer, combine the sweet potato, zucchini, cauliflower and sole. Add the thyme. Steam until the vegetables and fish are soft.
  • Discard the thyme and puree the vegetables and fish with some of the water used to steam the vegetables (it contains many nutrients). When ready to serve the food to your baby, add a drizzle of olive oil.
Red kuri squash and chicken with fennel, cumin and sage

Makes 2 baby* servings (*she is almost 10 months)

  • Red kuri squash (5 oz; 140 g peeled and diced)
  • 1.75 oz (50 g) fennel
  • 1.5 oz (40 g) chicken breast, diced
  • Pinch of ground cumin
  • 2 sage leaves
  • Olive oil, to drizzle
  • Of course, it’s best to buy everything organic.

Steps:

  • In the bowl of a steamer, combine the red kuri squash, fennel and chicken.. Add the cumin and sage leaves. Steam until the vegetables and chicken are soft.
  • Puree the vegetables and chicken with some of the water used to steam the vegetables (it contains many nutrients). When ready to serve the food to your baby, add a drizzle of olive oil
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The 10 Worst Sexy Halloween Costumes

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It’s almost that time again: The one day of the year when women are allowed to express their true sexiness, and men are freed to dress like giant penis jokes. As Halloween approaches, costume manufacturers are struggling to produce new sexy/penis concepts to satisfy all the sexy/penis demands of sexy/penis-loving Americans. Sure, it’s refreshing to finally find an industry committed to producing low-quality merchandise meant to encourage women to be extremely sexy, and men to be sexually immature.

On the other hand: are there some Disney fish that should never be served up as a spandex mini-dresses? Is a spaghetti penis costume ever a good idea? And what happens when the guy with the gigantic plush phallus costume gets tipsy? The ten worst sexy costumes of 2009, after the jump.

10. The Sexy Clown Costume. The thing nightmares are made of.

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9. The Sexy Gangster Costume. A strangely conspicuous wardrobe for a professional criminal, no?

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Weird Wonders: 15 of the World’s Strangest Animals

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They may not win any beauty contests anytime soon, but the weird wonders of the animal world are infinitely more interesting than any mundane and adorable little creature. The Earth is full of rare and bizarre fish, amphibians, mammals and more that shock us with gigantic teeth, creepy gelatinous skin, retractable claws and parasitic mating habits. From the dark depths of the sea to the treetops of Madagascar, these 15 strange animals are quite a sight to behold.

Viperfish

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(images via: Courier Post, Duke University)

The depths of the ocean are literally swimming with creatures straight out of your weirdest nightmares, and theViper Fish is among the scariest. This grotesque-looking creature has teeth so large, they don’t fit in its mouth. It swims at high speed toward its victims and impales them upon its sharp teeth

Sea Pig

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With its pallid pink flesh, the scotoplane – known as a sea pig – resembles some kind of tumorous growth that was just excised from somebody’s abdomen. But, this strange creature is actually a type of sea cucumber. Sea pigs look and act sort of like slugs, feeding on organic materials that settle on the ocean floor.

Aye-Aye

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Few mammals are as weird looking as the endangered Aye-Aye, a lemur found only on the island of Madagascar, but – surprise! It’s actually a close relative of humans. With big protruding eyes, super-skinny fingers and a huge bushy tail, Aye-Ayes are pretty unique. Their bat-like ears allow them to detect insect larvae squirming inside trees, and they’ve also got a sweet tooth for coconut and sugar cane, which gets them in trouble with farmers.

Horror Frog

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It’s called a ‘horror frog’, but this amphibian isn’t the star of a b-movie. It’s so named because of its ability to actively break its own bones to produce claws. Hairy and bizarre, the horror frog – also nicknamed the wolverine frog, after the comic book character – can break its bones so that they puncture its toe pads, producing extendable claws on demand when threatened. This Cameroon native, which is often roasted and eaten, was discovered in 2008.

Giant Isopod

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If you’re afraid of bugs, you’re really not going to like the Giant Isopod. It resembles nothing so much as a cockroach the size of a guinea pig, but it’s actually a crustacean related to shrimp and crabs. These scavengers roam the cold, dark sea floor from 560ft to 7,000ft below the surface of the ocean, eating mostly dead whales, fish, and squid.

Yeti Crab

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(image via: National Geographic)

With its long, furry appendages, the newly-discovered Yeti Crab looks like some kind of sea sloth. It was discovered on the floor of the Pacific Ocean during a deep-sea diving expedition in 2006 and is so unusual that a new taxonomic family had to be invented for it. The Yeti Crab is blind and white, with fur that supports colonies of bacteria. It lives near hydrothermal vents 7,540 feet under the surface.

Spanish Ribbed Newt

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Another creature that intentionally injures itself to produce weapons is the Spanish Ribbed Newt. It looks pretty unremarkable until it’s threatened, and then it does something pretty wild: it punctures its skin with its own sharp rib bones to create spines, which are coated with toxic skin secretions. These poison spears do not emerge from permanent openings; they must rip holes in the skin each time they’re deployed.

Anglerfish

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The anglerfish’s appearance is scary enough, but its mating habits truly set it apart as among the weirdest of the weird sea creatures. The male anglerfish bites into a female’s skin, releases an enzyme that digests the skin of his mouth and her body to fuse them together, and then atrophies into nothing but a pair of gonads, becoming a parasitic sperm factory.

Dumbo Octopus

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(image via: The New York Times)

Strange as the Dumbo Octopus may be, some people actually think it’s pretty cute – hence the Disney-inspired name, given for its two fins which resemble ears. ‘Dumbo’ can be found in the dark depths of any ocean on Earth and grows up to 20cm in length. It swallows its prey, made up of mostly worms and crustaceans, whole.

Gulper Eel

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(image via: National Geographic)

Where the gulper eel lives – way down at the bottom of the ocean – there isn’t exactly a buffet of meal choices. Luckily, this creepy creature has a gigantic jaw that allows it to eat pretty much anything it comes across, regardless of size. At the end of its very long, whip-like tail, there’s a light-producing organ called a photophore that it uses as a fishing lure to attract prey.

Long-eared Jerboa

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(images via: The Telegraph, Science Blogs, Metro UK)

Shaped somewhat like a tiny kangaroo, the nocturnal mouse-like Long-eared Jerboa uses its elongated tail and hind legs for jumping. The endangered rodent, found in the Gobi desert of Mongolia, has ears that are about a third larger than its head and eats mostly insects. It’s so extraordinary that it’s the only species of its genus.

Indian Gharial

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Most of us have grown accustomed to the prehistoric appearance of alligators and crocodiles, but for those unused to looking at it, the Indian gharial seems like something transported straight from the age of dinosaurs. This severely threatened native of Indian rivers has a very long, thin snout fitted with a row of sharp teeth. Scientists suspect that heavy metal pollution in the rivers is causing debilitating gout and making gharials susceptible to infection.

Long-beaked Echidna

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(image via: Wikimedia.org)

Is it a porcupine or an anteater? Neither, actually. The long-beaked echidna is a rare egg-laying mammal found in Papua New Guinea. This nocturnal critter is a relative of the platypus, but lives underground where it uses its tube-like snout to search for invertebrate prey like insect larvae and worms. It has to eat soft foods, because it doesn’t have any teeth. Hatchlings are known as ‘puggles’, and they reside in a sticky pouch to receive milk from mammary patches on the mother’s body.

Blobfish

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When you pull up your fishing net to inspect its contents, the last thing you want to see is a gelatinous mass of pale flesh peering up at you with dull bluish eyes. But, fear not – catching a blobfish is extremely rare. These bizarre fish live in the depths off the coasts of Tasmania and Australia. They don’t have any muscles, but since have a lower density than the water, so they just sort of float around.

Naked Mole Rat

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(image via: National Geographic)

Its wrinkled pink skin, piggish nose and protruding teeth don’t exactly make the naked mole rat the cutest animal around. Colonies of these hairless rodents live in underground “palaces” led by one dominant rat – the queen, which is the only female to breed and bear young. As with bees, naked mole rats have roles in the colony, including workers that dig the tunnels and gather food. Most naked mole rats are found in the sandy deserts of sub-Saharan Africa.

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Exoskeletons/fins/rainbows/amphibians/Victoriana/butterfly wings/nightmares/oceanscape/vaults/Sirens/apocalypse/armadillos/Jadis...I love it when fashion reminds me of things that have nothing to do with fashion. Dissected and styled the pieces could be wearable, but I wonder if/how the shoes will be watered down for retail? More here.

On livestreaming and setting up glass pyramids around the world to beam his shows into, McQueen says, "This is the birth of a new dawn. There is no way back for me now. I am going to take you on journeys you’ve never dreamed were possible."

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Unbelievable: "123456" Most Common Hotmail Password

Over 10,000 Hotmail email accounts were leaked to the web earlier this week as the result of a massive phishing scam, which may not have taken a whole lot of effort. After all, if you're going to choose "123456" as your password, compromising your account is like shooting fish in a barrel.

In this case, there were 64 said fish in a barrel full of over 10,000 compromised Hotmail accounts, making it themost commonly used password of the bunch, according to a researcher who combed through all the posted accounts.

About 42 percent of the passwords consisted of lowercase letters from "a" to "z," and just 6 percent secured their email accounts by mixing alpha-numeric characters. And almost 2,000 passwords were only six characters long (the longest was 30 characters).

An interesting side note - a bunch of the top 20 passwords were Spanish names, which might suggest that the victims were of Spanish origin or lived in Spanish-speaking communities, Wired.com reports.

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Ghost Of Collegiate Past

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We made a comic today even though Wes transformed into a cephalopod while Tony was giddy over someinsider information.

Don’t forget! Today is the LAST DAY to enter the ASP Anniversary Contest! Have it emailed to us before we wake up tomorrow morning.

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Tragedy in Texas

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Reposted from Tucson Bike Lawyer:

Folks, that is a photograph of seven year old Kylie Bruehler. She is at a funeral service to bury her parents, both of whom were killed last week when a driver veered onto the shoulder and drove his pickup truck into them.

They were riding together on a tandem.

The local news reports that “investigators say there are no charges on the driver. They believe this was an accident and that somehow the driver lost control of his truck.”

Texas’s governor recently vetoed a law that would mandate a safe passing distance for cyclists, saying it was unnecessary.

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You'll Never Guess Who's Going To Be On The Cover Of Playboy Next Month!!

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No, we're not kidding. Why would we joke about this?

Marge Simpson will be the November covergirl of Playboy magazine in honor of The Simpsons' 20th Anniversary.

Aren't you curious what the totally recognizable (with an age totally undefinable) cartoon mom looks like NAKED?!!?

Even if you're not, you're going to find out, but don't worry, there won't be any reason to get blue-balled over the blue bush. All you perves yearning to scratch one off to a real woman will still get a real-life human Playmate to enjoy in the issue.

Oh Hugh Hefner, the shiz you pull!

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